Posted on February 21, 2012.

Thanks for your words! They are always helpful and encouraged ^-^ I know that bruising isn't a goal of S&M and neither should it be, but for me a bruise is something special because I don't very easily, and as a rarity it makes me happy. This probably sounds stupid but I just wanted to say I appreciate you for your reblog.

Asked by niyalaytin420

No, I totally get it! And the thing is, if people know what’s up and still decide they want to do it, then by all means they need to do things the way they like things done. I just hear people who aren’t really into BDSM seriously talk about how they love getting the shit beat of them or vice versa, and I always think it’s important to point out that BDSM has basic rules and regulation for safe play that we take very seriously. People should always do research on techniques before they attempt them at home, just as a note for all my followers. Trust me y’all, you can be put in the hospital if you’re not careful.